Do you have a “bucket list”? A bucket list is a number of experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime. Have you seen the 2007 movie “The Bucket List”? The movie is called The Bucket List, a 2007 comedy-drama starring Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman. The film follows two terminally ill men who decide to complete a list of things they want to do before they “kick the bucket,” embarking on a road trip of a lifetime. The two men, a wealthy businessman and a mechanic, meet in a hospital cancer ward. After their diagnosis, they team up to fulfill their shared wish list, which includes traveling, skydiving, and other adventures.
So, do you have a bucket list? My wife loves to travel. Her bucket list includes an Italy cooking school, a Mediterranean cruise, Niagara Falls, etc. I don’t have a bucket list. I don’t like to travel. I enjoy watching youtube videos about foreign places, especially those in the tropics. That’s more than enough for me and a lot less stress than traveling, catching flights, etc. I have recurring nightmares that I am in a foreign country and it’s an hour before our return flight but I can’t get transportation to the airport. I wake up all stressed out!
I guess it’s good that the Lord has kinda forced me to travel some. We did mission work in Trinidad, West Indies and Colombia, South America and I would never have gone there if not for mission work-and it was some of the best years of my ministry. I went with my wife to Italy b/c she wanted me to-I did get to see the place where Paul was in prison in Rome and I saw volcano ravished Pompeii and Mt Vesuvius. We’ve been to Honduras, Ecuador, Vancouver (the Butchart Gardens) on short mission trips and that was good. We did great family trips to Puerto Rico and Costa Rica. All those are places that I never would have gone to if not for Lord or family pushing me to go. So my bucket list was kinda given to me by God or family, but it’s places I’m glad I went to.
But what’s on my “un-bucket list”? I just made that up so I was surprised to find that an un-bucket list is a real thing. AI: An un-bucket list is a list of things you have decided not to do (or do again), either because you have already experienced them or because you have consciously chosen to avoid them.” That’s places I’ve traveled to and have said that I will never go there again in my lifetime. Atlanta, for example. We crossed Atlanta to go to Stone Mountain. That traffic in Atlanta! I will never go to Atlanta again. If the Lord told me to go do mission work in Atlanta, which is almost due East of our home, I would head due west toward San Diego! Like Jonah. I would not go by land not boat for obvious reasons! Another place on my un-bucket list would now be Dollywood. Our whole family of 18 just went there and had a great time in a great cabin. Fun, fun, fun. My grandkids even pushed me to ride the Wild Eagle and Barnstormer, which I will refuse to ever do again b/c I am afraid of heights and roller coasters that do 4 upside down loops. Then there was the traffic in Chattanooga and Knoxville. Horrible, brutal. If the Lord told me to head north to do mission work in Chattanooga or Knoxville I would head south to Florida instead. Then there’s Chicago. One of our daughters decides to get her masters in Chicago instead of Tuscaloosa. She stays for 2 years in Chicago, living 8 miles from downtown Chicago. So we drive to Chicago to visit her. Traffic is terrible and its windy and cold. It takes 2 hours by car (b/c of the horrible traffic) to drive those 8 miles to where she was working as a waitress that first year. So instead you leave your car and you walk 15 minutes to catch the “L” (the elevated rapid transport system), ride 30 minutes on the L, and then walk 15 minutes to get to her place of work. She would work till midnight, walk 15 minutes to catch a bus, switch to another bus, and then after about 45 minutes of bus rides she walks 15 minutes to her apartment in all kind of bad weather (and yet she loved Chicago). All that to get to a place 8 miles away. I can get in my car here in Huntsville and drive 8 miles in 10 minutes and be at work! Chicago is on the un-bucket list.
That’s enough I guess. What’s on your “un-bucket list”? Places you went to but have pledged to never go there again for the rest of your life. Were those places worth it, looking back,however? Probably so. Dollywood was a great family memory in spite of the traffic. Millennium Park and Navy Pier in Chicago with our daughter. The Summit Skyride to the top of Stone Mountain.
I don’t even know why I’m writing such a dumb blog about my un-bucket list. I think I’m still in shock and internal anger b/c of sitting for 2 extra hours almost stopped dead still on interstates for crying out loud (on I-24 and I-75)! Sorry I wasted your time reading this if anyone happens to actually read this blog to this final point!