MY “UN-BUCKET LIST”

Do you have a “bucket list”? A bucket list is a number of experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime. Have you seen the 2007 movie “The Bucket List”? The movie is called The Bucket List, a 2007 comedy-drama starring Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman. The film follows two terminally ill men who decide to complete a list of things they want to do before they “kick the bucket,” embarking on a road trip of a lifetime. The two men, a wealthy businessman and a mechanic, meet in a hospital cancer ward. After their diagnosis, they team up to fulfill their shared wish list, which includes traveling, skydiving, and other adventures.

So, do you have a bucket list? My wife loves to travel. Her bucket list includes an Italy cooking school, a Mediterranean cruise, Niagara Falls, etc. I don’t have a bucket list. I don’t like to travel. I enjoy watching youtube videos about foreign places, especially those in the tropics. That’s more than enough for me and a lot less stress than traveling, catching flights, etc. I have recurring nightmares that I am in a foreign country and it’s an hour before our return flight but I can’t get transportation to the airport. I wake up all stressed out!

I guess it’s good that the Lord has kinda forced me to travel some. We did mission work in Trinidad, West Indies and Colombia, South America and I would never have gone there if not for mission work-and it was some of the best years of my ministry. I went with my wife to Italy b/c she wanted me to-I did get to see the place where Paul was in prison in Rome and I saw volcano ravished Pompeii and Mt Vesuvius. We’ve been to Honduras, Ecuador, Vancouver (the Butchart Gardens) on short mission trips and that was good. We did great family trips to Puerto Rico and Costa Rica. All those are places that I never would have gone to if not for Lord or family pushing me to go. So my bucket list was kinda given to me by God or family, but it’s places I’m glad I went to.

But what’s on my “un-bucket list”? I just made that up so I was surprised to find that an un-bucket list is a real thing. AI: An un-bucket list is a list of things you have decided not to do (or do again), either because you have already experienced them or because you have consciously chosen to avoid them.” That’s places I’ve traveled to and have said that I will never go there again in my lifetime. Atlanta, for example. We crossed Atlanta to go to Stone Mountain. That traffic in Atlanta! I will never go to Atlanta again. If the Lord told me to go do mission work in Atlanta, which is almost due East of our home, I would head due west toward San Diego! Like Jonah. I would not go by land not boat for obvious reasons! Another place on my un-bucket list would now be Dollywood. Our whole family of 18 just went there and had a great time in a great cabin. Fun, fun, fun. My grandkids even pushed me to ride the Wild Eagle and Barnstormer, which I will refuse to ever do again b/c I am afraid of heights and roller coasters that do 4 upside down loops. Then there was the traffic in Chattanooga and Knoxville. Horrible, brutal. If the Lord told me to head north to do mission work in Chattanooga or Knoxville I would head south to Florida instead. Then there’s Chicago. One of our daughters decides to get her masters in Chicago instead of Tuscaloosa. She stays for 2 years in Chicago, living 8 miles from downtown Chicago. So we drive to Chicago to visit her. Traffic is terrible and its windy and cold. It takes 2 hours by car (b/c of the horrible traffic) to drive those 8 miles to where she was working as a waitress that first year. So instead you leave your car and you walk 15 minutes to catch the “L” (the elevated rapid transport system), ride 30 minutes on the L, and then walk 15 minutes to get to her place of work. She would work till midnight, walk 15 minutes to catch a bus, switch to another bus, and then after about 45 minutes of bus rides she walks 15 minutes to her apartment in all kind of bad weather (and yet she loved Chicago). All that to get to a place 8 miles away. I can get in my car here in Huntsville and drive 8 miles in 10 minutes and be at work! Chicago is on the un-bucket list.

That’s enough I guess. What’s on your “un-bucket list”? Places you went to but have pledged to never go there again for the rest of your life. Were those places worth it, looking back,however? Probably so. Dollywood was a great family memory in spite of the traffic. Millennium Park and Navy Pier in Chicago with our daughter. The Summit Skyride to the top of Stone Mountain.

I don’t even know why I’m writing such a dumb blog about my un-bucket list. I think I’m still in shock and internal anger b/c of sitting for 2 extra hours almost stopped dead still on interstates for crying out loud (on I-24 and I-75)! Sorry I wasted your time reading this if anyone happens to actually read this blog to this final point!

NEW WINE IN OLD WINESKINS

Luke 5:33 And they said to him, “The disciples of John fast often and offer prayers, and so do the disciples of the Pharisees, but yours eat and drink.” 34 And Jesus said to them, “Can you make wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them? 35 The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast in those days.” 36 He also told them a parable: “No one tears a piece from a new garment and puts it on an old garment. If he does, he will tear the new, and the piece from the new will not match the old. 37 And no one puts new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the new wine will burst the skins and it will be spilled, and the skins will be destroyed. 38 But new wine must be put into fresh wineskins. 39 And no one after drinking old wine desires new, for he says, ‘The old is good.’”

The new wine would ferment more and release gasses that would cause the old wineskin to burst since the old wineskin had already shrunk all that it could schrink. The new cloth would shrinnk when washed, thus pulling away from the old cloth it was sewn to b/c the old cloth. That’s pretty easy to understand. So new wine needs to be put in new wineskins so that the new wineskin can expand as the new wine ferments.

So what is the lesson in this parable? Jesus is introducing new thinking to the legalism of the Pharisees. They were content with the old, “keep the Law” strictly, way of thinking. Jesus would introduce things like “you have heard don’t commit adultery, but I say unto you don’t lust”. They were more concerned about keeping the rituals of the Law rather than the purity of the heart. Jesus’ teaching would be the new wine and the new cloth. The Pharisees’ hypocrisy and legalism would be the old wineskins and the old cloth.

So how does that apply to me? Many of us have been brought up in churches where keeping the commands was the emphasis. Nothing wrong with that unless your strict law keeping ends up making you legalistic, judgmental, and self righteous. You might be exposed to some new spiritual thoughts that should expand your belief in the Bible or in Jesus and you are just closed minded and don’t give the new thoughts a fair chance. Don’t get me wrong. There is a lot of new thinking in churches that LGBQT is an acceptable way of loving. I am closed minded on that b/c the Bible clearly says that is a sin. But then I attend one of those mega churches that has a contemporary worship service with the band and the 7/11 music (repeating the same 7 words 11 times). My old church upbringing makes me a little skeptical. Is this entertainment or worship? Our legalistic preachers in the past told us it was entertainment. But while I was there, the lights were down low and I sat by a co-worker and her family and felt a peace that i was needing. I watched my co-worker’s little 9 year old girl singing every word with emotion, swaying to the music, and I thought, “I never did that as a kid. Maybe I need what she has.” I am anti-paid preachers and big churches, but I watched probably a thousand people worship in 3 different services that morning.

I heard a sermon from probably a $100,000+ preacher that challenged me. He was preaching on 1 Corinthians 2:1-5 where Paul said that he focused on just preaching the gosel without using persuasive words of wisdom. How Paul preached out of weakness (his thorn in the flesh?) and was not an elegant speaker like Apollos. He said Paul would be turned down for preaching at most big churches today. He mentioned men like David Brainerd, the apostle to the North American Indians, who was kicked out of Yale b/c of his “spiritual enthusiasm” that had been stirred up by George Whitefield (the 2nd Great Awakening movement). He lived with tuberculosis most of his life and suffered greatly from it, dying at the age of 29 from his disease. In later life, he suffered from depression, loneliness, and lack of food. He died staying in the house of Jonathon Edwards. He probably only converted a few Indians, but he influence men like William Carey, the father of Protestant missions., and Adoniram Judson, the missionary to inland China. John Wesley said ‘Let every preacher read carefully over the Life of David Brainerd‘.

Back to the worship service I attended and the sermon. The preacher challenged the audience, “have you been called to preach, which I thought was strange since he was preaching to an audience with probably no one there who was called to preach. Then I wondered if he was talking to me! He said it was the Spirit speaking through the word in sermons so maybe it was the Spirit.

My point is that the Spirit is trying to put new, fresh, spiritual thoughts in our hearts and minds all the time if we will just tune in. You have to tune in to your favorite radio program, to tune in to the frequency of that program, in order to listen to your favorite music. You have to change your old way of listening to other radio program frequencies to get the new one that will edify you. So I leave it with you to do that in your own experiences. I shared mine and I imagine you have things like that to share also. I need to look at the wordress site and see if there is something I can click that would allow readers to share comments with one another. Hey, that might be new wine.

Jesus concluded the parable with  “and no one after drinking old wine desires new, for he says, ‘The old is good.’” I think that means that people tend to prefer what they are familiar with and are reluctant to try something new, even if it might be better. We are kinda stuck in our old ways and way of thinking.